The church answer is to live by the standards God has placed in his word for us, but can we really live up to the standards God has given us or is it like Captain Barbossa said, "They are more like guidelines than actual rules" (Pirates of the Caribbean). The standards God has placed upon his followers are strenuous, and yes they are impossible for us to keep from now till death. We cannot focus on the things that can happen to us, we were told that daily we are to die to self. Every day we must make the effort to put to rest the things inside of us we wish to do that are contrary to the will of God. No, we will not succeed every time for we will grow weary and our bodies will give in, but God has called us to repentance. God has called us to himself for forgiveness.
Many of the standards we have placed in our lives are not standards God has determined worthy of his children. God has not called us to earthly riches, instead he has told us to care for nothing in this world and store up treasures in heaven. We cannot let the things of this world determine how we live because they do not matter! Our life is a journey to God and his holiness it is a journey to that throne filled with His glory. You see before us is a path that is rather narrow, and many times it is so hard to walk straight that many people would prefer to go the other way where the going is easy and spacious, but the things worth having are worth working for. At the end of this narrow path there are things beyond our imagination things more glorious than anything we could imagine, but what is even grander to think about is we will not care what is at the end as long as God our Father is there.
One standard that I would like to discuss before I end my strange writing process is God's standard for love. It's one we must strive for in our lives, if there is anything we need to strive for it is to love like God loves. You see God does not have a problem finding the beauty in people, he sees to their core and loves them. The love God gives is not one that needs to have sex to be in love or one that needs a physical touch to grow. You see the love God has is not like a rose which pricks and causes one to bleed instead it is like the ocean which continues to crash onto the shore. God wishes to encompass us with his love because he knows what is needed. The highest standard we can live by is this: To love our neighbor as ourself and to love the lord your God with all your heart; the two greatest commandments given to us.